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WHAT TO DO WHEN HE IS STRINGING YOU ALONG. (#216)
 
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Women often know when they are being strung along but often we struggle with what to do or how to handle this without coming across needy, desperate or pushy. You just want to know where you stand in a clear way so you can make up your mind about what you want and avoid having your time wasted. Work with me one on one via [email protected]
Views: 26360 Chengi's World
OBSESSING OVER HIS EX? (#110)
 
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Are you obsessing over his ex? Does it freak you out when you see him ispeaking to his ex or if he likes a post of hers on social media? Transcript I have all kinds of insecurities about this sort of thing but this was never really one of them. Women worrying about the ex. There is a reason why someone is somebodies ex. I dont care if she is younger, prettier more his type than you. The worst thing you can do is show him that you are intimidated by his ex. In so doing you put value on his ex and less onto yourself. By letting him see that you are intimidated you are telling him that she is the high value girl and not me. If anyone should be intimidated it should be the ex. Insecurities are real! People do go back to the exes and some have sex with their exes but those are the exceptions and not the rule. Yes there are exes who need to pursue your man to feel like they can still have him or have some power over him but how you handle the situation is key. Its about how you walk into the room. You need to carry yourself with confidence and swagger because there is something in you that he couldn't find in the ex and he is with you because of that unique quality. If she starts tomake a play on your man. Ignore it ! If your man buys into that then you need to go home and have the conversation with your man. Your man doesnt need to be mean to his ex for him to reassure you that he is not into her anymore. Remember there is a history there. The truth is he came with you and he is with you and it is up to you to maintain your value. Head up, shoulders back and stack your spine. You are the happening situation so go ahead and HAPPEN! Love you lots Mwah Instagram :Chengi's world Facebook: Chengi's World Twitter: Chengi Pot
Views: 4784 Chengi's World
HOW TO MAKE A MAN SEE YOU AS THE ONE (#16)
 
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Ever wondered what the difference between a woman a man marries and the one he plays with? Are you ready to find love and settle down? Then this video is for you. men will treat you inlight of how you present yourself. In this video you will recieve some key pointers on how to be the kind of girl a man considers for a long term relationship that will more than likely end in marriage.
Views: 3635 Chengi's World
WHEN THE VANISHER RETURNS (#4)
 
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For whatever reason he disappeared when you really wanted him to stay. Now he is back. He wants back in but you are worried about what to do. Fear not lovely lady. This video will teach you the best way to handle this little problem. Stay tuned to the very end. Credit to Matt Boggs for the inspiration for this video. Matt is not only a genius but has an incredible insight into relationships. I am a huge fan. contact me at [email protected] join my https://www.facebook.com/chengisworld/ instagram: chengisworld
Views: 78506 Chengi's World
GETTING A MAN TO GIVE YOU THE RESPECT YOU DESERVE (#138)
 
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A high value man will struggle to love a woman he cannot respect and so what does a man respect in general and in the woman he is dating? That’s what this video is about today. In this video I will teach the principles the win a man’s respect and how these really are you being your authentic self
Views: 7267 Chengi's World
IS HE BUSY OR EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE? (#144)
 
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Is the person you are seeing super busy or emotionally unavailable. Are they using their career , business or children as an excuse to breadcrumb you, keep you on a string and manage your emotions or are they genuinely super busy and need you to be understanding and accommodating? If one or more of these questions is a yes then this video is for you.
Views: 4266 Chengi's World
MY FIVE DATING NON-NEGOTIABLES (#8)
 
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Every girl needs her non-negotiables. Those pre-decisions that are so crucial before hearts get involved and you find you have fallen for Mr Wrong and its too late to bail without being torn apart. This video will jump start that process for you. Hope you enjoy and keep watching!
Views: 1914 Chengi's World
SIGNS HE IS PLAYING YOU (#10)
 
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We all know the signs that we are desperate to ignore when a man is not serious about a relationship with us. This video will outline most of the key signs that a guy is not into you or he is playing you! Enjoy!
Views: 8333 Chengi's World
HOW TO LET HIM SHOW YOU WHO HE REALLY IS (#134)
 
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Have you been trying to make him what he is not or hoping he will change his mind along the way? Are you frustrated because things aren’t panning out the way you hoped? Another guy letting you down again? Or is he? Could it be that it is the false expectations that you have imposed on him that are infact being disappointed? If this might be you then this video is for you.
Views: 2810 Chengi's World
THE #1 MISTAKE WOMEN MAKE WHEN DATING MEN (#108)
 
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What is the no1 mistake we make in dating love and romance? If you really want to know then this video is for you!
Views: 1836 Chengi's World
GET THE EX BACK (#34)
 
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You probably miss him. Cant seem to move on! This is your Mr Big! All you know is that you want him back. Or do you really?
Views: 1652 Chengi's World
LAST-MINUTE DATES AND HOW TO HANDLE THEM (#145)
 
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Are you tired of a man who won’t make a plan to be with you properly? He calls you a day or two before and expected to be ready, beautiful and available. Are you afraid to ask for what you want you are somehow being unreasonable and needy? If you are tired of feeling like first sacrificed and last considered then this video is for you.
Views: 1055 Chengi's World
WHEN THE VANISHER RETURNS: FEEDBACK ON COMMENTS (#125)
 
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Life is not about a set of hard and fast rules instead it is about a set of principles that will serve you best and well in each situation. Blanket responses are usually the child of hurt and bitterness of the past. This video will talk about make decisions on a case by case basis WHEN the vanisher does return.
Views: 5021 Chengi's World
DON'T PLAY GAMES WITH MEN (#85)
 
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This is what my elder sister taught me in my early years. A lesson I wish to pass on to you. This video will help you understand the difference between playing games and being authentically high value. Please send your letters and questions to [email protected] instagram: Chengi's World FB page: Chengi's World Twitter: Chengi Pot
Views: 5023 Chengi's World
MY WEIGHT LOSS BATTLES (#41)
 
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Are you like every woman on the planet struggling to have the ideal weight. Do you find the weightloss journey draining and difficult? Do you struggle with maintaining weightloss? Perhaps this video will help! instagram: Chengis World Facebook: Chengi's World email: [email protected] check out my other channel on : Makeup by Chengi
Views: 990 Chengi's World
5 SIGNS THAT A MAN IS INTO YOU (#171)
 
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Some of us can spot a player a mile away but we find it difficult to spot a good man or at least a man that is clearly into us. Perhaps we felt a man was into us in the past and we were disappointed so now we want to be one hundred percent sure. Whilst there really is no way of being certain these five principles will serve you well in your investigations.
Views: 4022 Chengi's World
WHEN HE READS YOUR MESSAGE OR IS ONLINE AND IGNORES YOU (#109)
 
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Dating in the 21st Century is a bit of a trip. Now that you can see if someone is online or whether they have read your message or not it's a lot easier to go nutty. If you feel ignored by the guy you are seeing then this video is for you. Transcript Dating in the 21st Century is it hindering or helping the love connection? Welcome back to my subscribers and welcome to my new subbies. Texting technology makes it easy for us to figure out if someone has recieved our message but when we send a message and the other person doesn't respond it is natural to assume that what is happening is that you are being ignored and therefore be rejected. Being ignored really gets to us because we ignore the things and people that dont matter. Actions are actions but it is the meaning we give to action that matter. For instance i have been in a situation were I am driving and whilst I can read that message I am not always in a situation to respond and when I get to my destination I may be distracted and forget to respond. We need to understand that just because a message reads read doesnt mean that it has infact been read. I would rather you assume that he is busy and that there are distraction than to assume that they are ignoring you or playing you. Even if they are it is important to let someone show you who they are. Texting as a medium is not ideal for emotional relationships. Watch texting rule for Dating and its best to assume the best and not the worst. "Also watch relationship shifts"
Views: 23867 Chengi's World
HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT FROM ANY MAN (#51)
 
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Ever wondered where the romance, passion and fire goes after you get to know someone and are in a relationship? Ever wonder where the attraction disappears too? Look no further than this video on how to get what you want from men. Join my Facebook page: Chengi's World Instagram: Chengisworld email: [email protected]
Views: 6831 Chengi's World
IS HE MOVING TOO FAST FOR YOU (#100)
 
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Do you feel that things are moving a little fast for you? Do you know someone whose relationship is moving at lightning speed and you are a little concerned? If the answer is yes to both or one of these questions then this video is absolutely for you. Instagram @ chengisworld Facebook @ Chengi's World Twitter @ Chengi Pot
Views: 1848 Chengi's World
THE QUALITY THAT MAKES A MAN WANT YOU (#60)
 
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Ever wondered what a man's greatest need is in a relationship? Well wonder no more this video has the scoop.
Views: 2453 Chengi's World
GETTING CLOSURE (#114)
 
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Are you searching for closure? Do you just want that final conversation or apology that will make everything better but its just not coming. Are you stuck and unable to move on because of this? If so and you want to get unstuck then this video is for you. Instagram: Chengisworld FB: Chengi's World
Views: 1232 Chengi's World
10 REASONS YOU MIGHT STILL BE SINGLE (#160)
 
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Are you and your family perplexed about your singleness? You have read every book ever written, prayed every prayer to be prayed and go the distance but for some reason love is not coming your way. Today I discuss a brand new concept at the end of my video. Watch all the way to the end. For one to one coaching email me at [email protected] Follow me on instagram : chengisworld Facebook : Chengi's World
Views: 889 Chengi's World
WHAT TO DO WHEN HE ASKS FOR SPACE
 
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Figuring out what to do when your man asks for space directly or indirectly is a very difficult place to find yourself emotionally. It’s hard to believe that it’s simply just space he wants and not an excuse to end the relationship. This video will help you handle this situation with finesse.
Views: 1203 Chengi's World
HE GHOSTED YOU? ONE WAY TO HANDLE IT (#2)
 
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You've had an incredible date, you are connecting on a special frequency and then just when you think you are going to fall in love..BOOM! He backs away, starts to create distance or vanishes altogether. You are confused, you go through every conversation with a fine tooth comb wondering what you could have said or done to warrant the distance. You are exhausted. WHY??Why is he pulling away and what can you do? Talk to me contact - [email protected]
Views: 14864 Chengi's World
HOW TO MANAGE ON AND OFF RELATIONSHIPS (#36)
 
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Are you in an on off relationship? Is it driving you nuts? This video is for you.
Views: 3548 Chengi's World
WHEN HE LIKES YOU BUT NOT ENOUGH. Q&A
 
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Many of us have found ourselves in a situation where we are more into our man than he is into us. It’s a very difficult and painful process that often ends up with in a breakup. If you want to know how to handle this situation this video is for you.
Views: 2283 Chengi's World
HOW TO RECOGNIZE AND RESPOND TO RELATIONSHIP SHIFTS (#73)
 
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Every relationship goes through a shift and usually this is the point people begin to quit, become needy and sabotage the relationship. If you would like to learn how to recognise a shift and how to respond then this video is for you.
Views: 708 Chengi's World
THE WORK (#107)
 
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IF you want to win in the game of love permanently then this video is for you. What is the work you would like to know? Watch this video and find out,
Views: 713 Chengi's World
UNREQUITED LOVE (#113)
 
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Are you in love alone? Are you the only person in Thisbe relationship feeling what you are feeling. Are you holding on to a love that you don't have? Are you done being in love with someone who quite simply cannot or will not love you back? If so then this video is absolutely for you.
Views: 1074 Chengi's World
THE SECRET TO KEEP A MAN INTERESTED YOU (#228)
 
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Getting a man is one thing but keeping him and the relationship interesting is another. Some of us can get a man no problem but keeping him is yet another. In this video I will show you the secret to keeping your man chasing you without playing any games or manipulating him. Follow me on Instagram: @chengisworld Facebook: Chengi’s World Website: www.chengisworld.co.uk
Views: 4472 Chengi's World
WHY YOU KEEP ATTRACTING MARRIED MEN
 
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If you are anything like me I used to wonder why I kept attracting married men. It was constant and very annoying until I finally got to the bottom of it. In this video I talk you about why this might be happening and what you might want to do about it.
Views: 622 Chengi's World
BLINDSIDED: WHEN HE OVER COMMITS THEN CHANGES HIS MIND (#194)
 
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Most women find themselves living out the life of their dreams only to find themselves out in the cold. He said you were the woman of his dreams, the mother to his children and the woman he has been waiting for then he sends you a text or a call saying he can’t do this anymore or he disappears on you and you have no idea what happened. How does a man go from hero to zero in 60 seconds. You are lost, confused absolutely hurt. There is a reason this happens and we shall discuss this in this video.
Views: 750 Chengi's World
HOW TO MAKE HIM FEEL LIKE A MAN (#166)
 
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It doesn’t take very much to make a man feel like he doesn’t matter and is not needed in the 21st Century. It’s easy for our feminist views to emasculate a man without a second thought. But how do we honour and keep our personal power as women and still rest in our feminine? This video will show you the small things you can do to lean back and let a man be a man. Follow me on Instagram: chengisworld Facebook: Chengi’s World Blog: chengisworld.wordpress.com Email: [email protected]
Views: 1607 Chengi's World
HOW TO LISTEN TO YOUR GUT (#31)
 
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Have you had that feeling that something is wrong or right but just haven't got the evidence to match it? Have you felt disappointed that you didn't pay attention to it? You second guessed yourself because you weren't sure where the subliminal message was saying. This video is for you.
Views: 1707 Chengi's World
THE WAIT (#89)
 
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Does the idea of waiting fill you with horror? Do you feel like you have been waiting too long already and are happy to give up? Are you like me and hate waiting or struggle with patience in general. Has this lack of patience in in ability to wait cost you a great deal so far. If you want to have all of what God has for you then your have to develop your patience.
Views: 1824 Chengi's World
TEXTING DO'S AND DON'TS FOR DATING (#12)
 
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If you are wondering how to navigate the text game during the dating phase this video is for you. How to take the lead in the texting game. Ways to end the texting marathon. What is the point of texting. Learn when and why to use text.
Views: 2751 Chengi's World
HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU (#119)
 
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“You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free” and no truer word spoken by the Lord Jesus. The truth is often harsh and painful but it tends to make free. The truth is nourishing to the soul. False hope is worse that no hope because false hope will make you lose your mind. I have seen the nature of crazy that we go to when we think someone really wants us when they don’t and in the absence of sound counsil we can lose the plot. Tough love is hard to dish out but tends to be effective occasionally. This video is some real talk with dollops of love to make it all better😘
Views: 5646 Chengi's World
DEALING WITH REJECTION (#28)
 
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Rejection is perhaps the most painful of human emotions and so difficult to get over especially if you have to see this person all the time as the healing process can be hard and painful. All the advice we get from family and friends doesn't seem to make a dent in our emotions or gives temporary relief. If you fee this way then this video is for you. Are you going through a heartbreak? Do you want to avoid heartbreak after it all ends prematurely? How to handle rejection is what this video is about.
Views: 2748 Chengi's World
WHY YOU SHOULD KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP A SECRET (#140)
 
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The first thing we do when we meet someone special is think of all the people you would want to tell. You reckon they will be so happy for you and adore him but infact by exposing a new relationship to opinions and views you jeopardise your own clarity
Views: 2293 Chengi's World
PAIN (#90)
 
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Do you do anything and everything you can think of to avoid emotional pain? Does the idea of getting hurt fill you with horror so much so that you avoid change, love and moving your life forward? If the answer if yes then this video will definitely help.
Views: 1049 Chengi's World
THIS IS THE SECOND TIME HIS VANISHED. WHAT SHALL I DO? Q&A (#187)
 
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#womenaskwednesday Lady H followed all my advice in the video “When the vanisher returns” and now he has gone and done it again. What do you do if the man you are dating needs constant reminding to make you are priority. Follow me on Instagram @chengisworld Facebook: Chengi’s World One to one coaching: www.chengisworld.co.uk
Views: 820 Chengi's World
DO'S AND DON'TS OF A FIRST DATE (#7)
 
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Ever felt unsure on a first date? What do you wear? What are the mistakes to avoid? The things to do to secure a second date if you are feeling him? What if you are not feeling him? How do you handle that?
Views: 485 Chengi's World
HOW TO STAND OUT FROM OTHER WOMEN (#30)
 
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Do you feel as though there is a lot of competition out there? Do you want to learn how to stay ahead of the competition? This video is definitely for you.
Views: 5325 Chengi's World
WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME TO SLEEP WITH HIM?(#123)
 
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This is perhaps the most asked question of our generation. We all want to know when the right time to sleep with a man is. We want a specific formula to follow so we can get it absolutely right but the one available is hard to do so what to do? I hope this video is absolutely practical and helpful to you.
Views: 1752 Chengi's World
STAY IN OR LEAVE A RELATIONSHIP? (#9)
 
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Love shouldn't hurt or be so hard. Do you feel like a child in your relationship? Are you always walking on eggshells? Are you depressed or suicidal? This video is for you.
Views: 1332 Chengi's World
COOL GIRL VS HIGH VALUE GIRL (#162)
 
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We live in a world were getting a commitment is like extracting teeth and so as women we are forced to relax or even forsake our standards in an attempt to win a man over and convince him that we will be absolutely no trouble if he will consider being with us. As a result men and women feel that they can behave inappropriately and get away with it because girls wanna be cool nowadays. follow me on Instagram : Chengisworld Facebook :Chengi's World email me [email protected] For one to one coaching email me with the subject heading GET THE RING
Views: 965 Chengi's World
HOW TO AVOID DESPERATION (#68)
 
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Are you or someone you know starting to feel and look desperate? Are you putting off potential mates or feeling like you are running out of time? If so this video is for you...
Views: 1569 Chengi's World
UNDERSTANDING MASCULINE VS FEMININE ENERGY (#37)
 
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We may be in male and female bodies but what energy do we carry and operate in? Curious? This video is for you .
Views: 1636 Chengi's World
WHEN YOU DON'T WANT THE SAME THINGS (#4)
 
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So you've finally met that guy who totally rocks your world but he doesn't want to be in a relationship, or have children or get married or whatever. What do you do? Why does this keep happening to you. Well let have this conversation girlfriend...
Views: 1482 Chengi's World
OLDER WOMAN/YOUNGER MAN: WHY YOUNGER MEN LIKE OLDER WOMEN(#126)
 
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As you get older if you find your younger men admirers keep increasing then you are not alone. If his age is is a problem and you are worried about what people will say, you feel like you would have nothing in common, you just haven't considered it as an option or a little curious then this video is for you. Perhaps the love of your life is way younger and you have been literally waiting for him to grow up to meet you. Open mind and open hearts
Views: 18727 Chengi's World