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5 Biggest Turn Ons For Men – What men find sexy…
If you’re like many women out there, you might be a bit confused as to what men find sexy in a woman. You might get a bunch of different stories depending on the guy you ask.
And I gotta tell you, doing some research for this article brought me in contact with some really bad advice out there on the Internet.
Watch out for a lot of misinformation when it comes to the topic of what turns men on and what guys find sexy…
A lot of things are a matter of tastes, but most are fairly easy to group together into a list of what is most common – and that’s what I’ve done for you here.
For example, I saw an article that claimed that a woman ‘covered in tattoos’ was a turn-on. I can tell you that this is a very isolated case, and that most men do NOT like women covered in tattoos. Just sayin… before you go out and get yourself inked – rethink that.
So I came up with your essential short list of the five biggest turn ons for men. This is accurate, and easy for you to use.
But first, I’ve got to start by telling you a few things that turn guys OFF:
Trying something out of a magazine – or something you bought at an adult shop…
I get it, you want to be clever and try that “breath mint trick” with your guy. But the worst thing you can do is to just use one of those clever tips without taking into account if that really CONNECTS with your man. Sure, guys like sexy-time – all the time… but we also want more connection in the bedroom the further the relationship goes along…
Pretending to want to watch porn with us when you’re not into it…
We get it – you’re not as into watching a Brazilian foursome with the pizza delivery guy as we are. That’s cool. But do us both a favor and don’t pretend you’re into it. If there’s one thing that doesn’t work, it’s pretending in the bedroom. (Unless you had a little roleplaying you wanted to do. But even then, make it REAL.)
Asking questions that are not really questions…
Okay, this is one I’m sure we’re all guilty of. When we ask a question with an agenda, like: “Where were you last night?” it almost never has a positive effect. Primarily because it’s fairly obvious that the next question is going to be about your current anxiety or emotional state – or just how pissed you are at us. Instead of asking an agenda question, why not take a few seconds and connect, authentically, and then describe the feelings that are at work inside you. Being up-front the first few times will take bravery, but will likely be rewarded with his guard coming down sooner.
And with that, let’s jump into a man’s biggest turn-ons…
Biggest Turn On #1: Be a Tease…
Of course, I mean the GOOD kind of tease.
The bad kind is the woman who leads a man on sexually, just to satisfy her needs for attention. This is what most guys have experienced at some point in their lives. And a LOT of it in our early 20s when singles bars were the “meat/meet” market we frequent a lot. Most of the girls we met back then were all too happy to milk us for a few free drinks and then ditch us. (Maybe not you, but many of the women we met in the bars did.)
What I’m talking about here is teasing a man with playful push-pull energy.
Don’t be afraid to give a guy a hard time here and there.
With a loving energy, you can really rile him up.
Playful teasing of a guy and “dancing” with your interest – sometimes called FLIRTING – WORKS.
And it’s NOT manipulative. It’s what every irresistible woman does instinctively.
Huge Turn On #2: Fun Girl…
Guys LOVE the Fun Girl.
The Fun Girl is comfortable with herself…
She doesn’t need to TRY to be fun… she IS fun.
And when there’s a weird or awkward moment, you’re right there with us. Laughing at it, going with the moment, and not pretending it didn’t happen just to save face.
Fun is THE first priority on the first few dates, and probably a whole bunch of dates after that, too.
What Turns A Guy On #3: Eager Student…
Guys love girls that are curious about men.
We’re very used to hearing women complain about men… But we almost never really hear what you’re genuinely curious about.
Most of the questions wind up sounding like: “Why are you THAT way? Can’t you change that?”
You might hear the underlying sound of disapproval in that, and you’d be right.
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