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Sometimes I wonder, if everyone in the world was blind then would anyone care how anyone looked? I mean, even if we can't see we can still make out what a person looks like right? You know, like how blind people use their sense of touch to "see". So instead of seeing how attractive someone is we would be feeling how attractive someone is. And since our sense of touch is usually most acute with features that are large or glaring, then I could see those people with the biggest features (ie, biggest noses, lips, cheeks, chins, etc) being deemed as the most attractive. And imagine a supermodel runway walk. Instead of people lined up to watch the supermodel walk the runway, people would line up with their hands stretched out and the supermodel would pass by and every person would brush their palms and fingers across their face which would probably give supermodels pimples/acne.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is, maybe our definition of what is beautiful is wrong or is only based on the limited perception offered by our eyes. Start "seeing" with your hands and your interpretation of beauty can easily change quite a bit. Start "seeing" with your heart, and love will always find its way back. The open hearts collection by Kay Jewelers, every kiss begins with Kay. *ding*
I'm a very attractive male. People gossip about me. Almost nobody likes me, including girls. I never had a girlfriend. Furthermore i really question if my looks are a curse from some kind of demon (no joke). i don't like being pretty. Btw, im not arrogant or a douche. Im a very soft, friendly guy.
Thats phisically painfully me. The only difference between me and this guy is that im actually bellow average looking, im 18 and 5'7 tall (bellow average height) and when i see a handsome dude, instead of thinking how big of a douchebag he is, i am thinking to myself *wow, he is a god*
This question can become a contradiction in its answer..
People now want to look like someone from the kardashians, Donald Duck lips, a bakery worth of flour on their face and the rest of that strestched leather skin look, but how did that become beauty?
Beauty changes with the times but it seems faux beauty is the new black. Gone is natural beauty or the classic look. Pucker yr lips like a stunned mullet and you become “Instagram famous”. Hahaha
Well a year ago i was hideous, i had an afro and everything, but now I'm like really hot, (i sound like such a tool) and i find that life is really easier when you're good-looking, i just have so much more confidence.
In a way the stereotype is very true if a really good looking person is competing for the same job as a average person more than likely the good looking guy our girl will get the job. When it comes to dating the good looking guy our girl will find it much easer to get a date and most often the fact they find it easier means they usually will whore around which I personally find disgusting and annoying. Lastly the stereotype type is more often true because when they loose those good looks a lot of the time they struggle because they are no longer being given special treatment.
you raise a good point bro.. few years back I worked at a bar as a cook.. one day they hired a new bartender, the dude was captain handsome, he was a model for department store catalogs and acted in commercials. my first reaction when I met him was oh geez check out this pretty boy Douche bag! then after getting to know him..man I couldn't have been more wrong. dude was one of the coolest friendliest guys you could ever meet
I'll use my 17 yr old cousin for example who is is gorgeously beautiful with a nice body and good personality. She is a EXTREMELY nice person for her age but the problem is that ppl are always fucking with her for being beautiful to the point where she got so depressed and self conscious about her looks that she thought she was hideous. Again, she's a nice ass person but being picked on all the time forced her into solitude that she rarely went out. When we finally got her to come to a family get together for a Holiday she didn't wanna take any family photos with the rest of us. I had to give her a reality check and said "look around at our family, ugliness doesn't run in our blood". Of course she still felt down for a while but now she's 17 and I can see how she's more confident now by how she dresses and her personality is even shows some changes. My point was that no one talks about is but some good looking ppl get treated like shit just for being pretty/ handsome. And if ur attractive and nice at the same time then that's a recipe for disaster. Nothing but hate everywhere but no one talks about the ugly truth of being attractive. I can relate, back in middle school an early high school the "tough guys" would give my a hard time cause they assumed the girls wanted me and I was only the shy guy that stayed to myself, I wasn't even cocky but I guess even the Jocks can be jealous too. I never really did have male friends. I use to try and be cool with them but they didn't want me around. Even some females didn't like me and would purposely ignore me cause they thought I had the "big head" just for being confident. I've even had teachers pick on me at times and embarrass me in front of class, or just treat me differently from the other students for something small and I was never really a bad kid. Most teachers did like me A lot tho. Now even at work I have to worry constant harrasment from ppl "usually guys" who don't like me for no reason at all. I feel paranoid and unsafe around ppl sometimes cause I know someone is always watching me an ready to try and embarrass me whenever I'm getting positive attention. Thb most guys always hated me.
completely and totally! my story, you literally wrote it down for me. unfortunately I didn't have any help when I was dealing with it but through the years I just got the hang of it. Thank u for posting this
OK I'm very handsome and Modest yet it still doesn't help me close deal with girls. It make attract or peak attention it doesn't auto make u win her. More social mechanics when dealing with women , I've seen hideous fiends with bombshells and will look over even though handsome it's all in gane
I don't agree. I work with a lot of entitled people who aren't in such good shape and pretty average looking. They seem to be the most judgmental. Most beautiful people I know don't give two shits about what other people do. I don't know but I like your personality in your videos I'm going to subscribe to you.
From my perspective both extremes of the spectrum are nice, because the have the same problem for different reasons : people staying away from them due to their looks. Meanwhile average people are the majority and are simply doing what average humans do. Criticize harshly.
Heavy MetalStorm It's pretty funny because, Hollywood perceives good looking men and women as being entitled, snobbish, and bitchy but, in reality its the other way around where average looking people are the entitled ones and the good looking people just don't give a fuck and are nicer.
I do think attractive folks do get more attention and get treated better. Do I think they have more distasteful personalities? No. How many folks don't look good and have very hideous personalities? I see plenty of them. Personality does not come with how you look because personalities and looks are two different things. Looks are how we appear to people. Personality is who we really are because it is our souls. That is unless you are faking your personality.
I honestly think it depends on how you're raised. Yes, Attractive people do get treated better, it's a well documented fact but the thing that determines personality is upbringing. I mean, take a super pretty girl who was born into a rich family. If the girl is heavily pampered, waited on hand and foot, and never had to do any kind of work in her life, she may grow up to be a pretty spoiled entitled brat.
But if said pretty girl was born into a moderate family and they taught her values like treating people with respect, giving her some chores to do, and encouraged her to partake in activities, she may grow up to be a conventionally pretty but social and be thankful for what she has.
I would say im average looking, Just because of all the things i do doesn't make me a lower class person in the spectrum of attraction. It may mislead them but from the people im constantly getting told that im a pretty attractive guy and legit kept count of the girls i've dated, attracted, and had some action with. I have one thing to say, I was attractive but never was I a douche. Here's another shocker, I'm a short guy, meaning I'm 5'3. Size doesn't matter nor looks matter as much. The nerds and geeks of my school are getting action. My point is, Be yourself. I didn't noticed it until I was actually feeling as myself and scored most of the time.
what I got from this video is that you can't judge a book by its cover. There are attractive people out there who are down to earth and there are also not so attractive people who can be very superficial and mean. Don't let beauty define who you are, you define your own beauty. I've had a hard time excepting my own physical flaws but I have come to understand that what really matters is what is inside that is the ultimate beauty. what's the point of having a really attractive partner if they are cruddy inside.
The media portrays good looking men as douche like in romance or high school movies the girl is always dating the very popular guy who can get any girl but he's a total dick so she leaves him for......the guy who is average looking and nice
Hey, at 3:18 people say that stuff about me, but none of it is true! But for real when people assume any of those things about me I feel flattered because I assume they assume these things because they think i'm attractive. Moral of this, if you are average, there will always be people who think you are stunning, trust me.
RyanPerson I see what you mean, that happened to me. People treat me better the more conventional I look. In fact, I've witnessed it through actual levels. When I looked "ugly" I was ignored, condescended passive aggressively via conversation, or sometimes even laughed at (but not as an adult, hence why I asked). Looking plain, I was mainly ignored only. Looking slightly above average, people were a bit nosy towards me, curious about me when talking but not over the top. Then with a bit of makeup and my facial appearance "improving" in the last year and altered features (like eyebrows), people will stare, talk to me lots, compliment me so much, let me take authority when speaking etc. It's so weird. People are annoying as fuck because they're so fake.
How you look is a reflection on who you are inside so no attractive people don't necessarily have worse personalities, its more likely that they have more favorable attributes. Many attractive people are shy and can be less outspoken so ugly-average looking people, because many of them are the complete opposite of that, out of their own insecuritytake the shyness of the attractive person as arrogance or being stuck-up and thus unfairly attribute those assumptions to the attractive person.
Yes, I was cute kid, ugly early teen, sexy now, (18). Girls can't keep their eyes off me.
Having experienced both sides, I can defiantly say everyone treats you nicer, if I bump into someone, they will apologize to me 100% of the time. I can make women horny by staring them down........its fucking awesome.
Hello, firstable, I want to say that it is my first time that I see a video from you and it was very good, you are kinda funny and the video is entertaining; and finally I am really surprised I understood everything you said, excepet when you talked very very quickly, I am from México and I am very happy of my listening because it improved a lot since I have been 2 months studying English in Las Vegas the last summer (I studied English two years in México before, but I felt I needed more direct contact with the language and the anglo culture, so I did it), so I think I will see more videos from you to keep practicing my ear, I hope I'll have the same result I had here. Greetings.
I do think that beautiful people have it easier than the rest of us cuz we live in a very superficial society where looks mean a lot. Just look at that Jeremy meeks situation, that guy is a fucking felon but women were drooling over him and some even tried to pay his bail money cuz he looks hot.
+Mr. Troll fucking rights Mr. Troll...when I was younger I never realized that all the other guys were just mad jealous of how fucking cute I am. started working out...2 year later, girls don't leave me the fuck alone.
+Luke Carter i feel your pain. When i had lots of acne all over my face. People treat me like shit. (Intentionally or unintentionally). Whether us human are realizing it or not. We does treat others based on appearance. If only we're having our eyes shut all the time, it's possible to judge others in an objective way.
+Hassan Malek Perhaps I didn't. I said that because after having extreme acne for two years of high school, nobody really cared about me, until I lost it for the most part. This is my personal experience, and may not be applicable to everyone. Society is really shallow, unfortunately.
I'm just wondering how your significant other (assuming you have one) feels about this. I would be really insulted because it would mean that either you thought I was a horrible person person or not very pretty.
I'm an average guy. Average height, average smarts, average athletic ability etc...And I have no issue with attractive people using their looks to achieve better things in life. If you have a gift use it. Telling an attractive person not to use their looks is like telling a 7ft guy he shouldn't play basketball or a guy with a 170 IQ not to study physics. So in short yes attractive people have it easier but that doesn't mean YOU can't make a good life for yourself.
Well maybe you shouldn't be a clumsy, man-stealing, unfunny succubus... .__.
I'm totally kidding by the way but yeah, there is no denying that conventional attractive people have their own set off hangups that can suck like the feeling of living up to expectations and not failing which definitely can play on someone's self esteem as well.
LordDeathspit you are mislead pal. I get compliments all the time about my looks. manly from men. women love to compliment me when they are drunk but that's it. on the rest of the time I am scrutinized for every mistake I make, people don't trust me around their woman, men and women alike are intimidated by me and I can't make the same jokes as someone em who is "average" because everything I do and say in society is being recorded under a microscope. no. better looking people don't have it easier. at least not in my case.
in short yes. I've been told that I'm attractive. more attention from women, and better at making first impressions. Like people will assume you are smart, successful, honest, etc.
Unattractive people have to make more effort, like exhuding alot of personal charm, humor, and wearing fancy clothes, expensive cars. etc.
but attractive people have a harder time of making friends with the same sex, likely because those people feel threatened in some way. also, many attractive people have narcissitic tendencies. I admit that I have some of that, like always checking themselves out in the mirror (lol)
it balances out. I like that I get more attention from women, but everybody ends up settling down to start a family, and I will too. Not to mention there are alot of women who will go for $$ over looks.
not to mention your looks will start to degrade at around 40 years. at old age all you have left is how you lived your life.
Beauty is a social construction, it always has been. I'm sure many know that in the middle ages being overweight was a standard of beauty because it indicated wealth and power. The media's portrayal of beauty today is quite different, but it is important to note that it is still a social construction, meaning it is not actually beauty, people think it is.
If you try your best to fit contemporary social constructions of beauty it will definitely help you feel better about yourself which I think is a good thing, until you start expressing that externally aka talking about your beauty, telling other people beauty flaws, etc. It should be an intrinsic value and many do keep it that way.
You can fit the social construction of beauty and also use that to help you be a better more confident person, or you can use it to be more confident but also detrimental to your personality. You can fail to fit the categories of beauty but still be a confident like-able person. Likewise, you can be a douche w/o fitting the categories of beauty.
+CSPSpy What exactly do you mean by good gene? A good gene is extremely subjective.
Beauty is not objective. What one person thinks is beautiful, the next may not.. I'm sure you like everyone else has seen a person that everyone says "OMG SO HOT" but you don't find quite as attractive.
You're talking about health and good genes as if they are byproducts of beauty, when in fact something like being healthy and physically fit is what produces the notion of beauty.
Beauty isn't a material existing object like computers, trees, animals, etc. Someone that becomes a model after years of being obese is perceived as beautiful because it is a social construction. That person had to do certain things (workout, eat well) to fit into the category of beauty. It didn't just exist as part of them, it isn't part of their biology. Beauty changes from time to time because social movements and mindsets change from time to time following trends.
I can't answer your hypothetical literally because that scenario hasn't happened, but if the the popular media and mainstream thinking suggested that that look was attractive, in, the trend, beautiful - then most people would probably find that attractive.. but that would also happen over time. Trends, ways of thinking, change over periods of time... they don't just happen on a whim like you say.
And btw, my last gf wasn't what most people would call beautiful, but she was to me.
"beauty is a social construction"
beauty is an indicator of good genes, healthyness
if beauty was a social construction then you'd totally date a fat, fedora-wearing neckbeard the moment a magazine cover said it was hot, right?
answer: no, you fucking wouldn't
+noMixedteajp people value pretty more than intelligent. and it makes sense on an instinctive level. most women would prefer a handsome, strong man with average intellect over a frail, "nerdy" man who is more intelligent. but really, pretty faces do not often mean 'brains'. you must be really lucky to have encountered those.
Unless you have been pretty before then it's very ignorant of you to say pretty people have no problems everyone at lest got a few problems even when there privileged in other parts no one can have there cake and eat it to its impossible and inhuman.
Yes. They do get it a little easier. It's proven through sociological studies. But remember everyone's definition of beautiful is different. & it's true. you do have to just give them a chance. I've been on both ends of the spectrum so I've got a grip on the dynamics and your right. you just have to give people a chance. don't presume or judge based completely on looks.
They may be beautiful physically but a lot of them are of the beast inside.
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I think if everyone was blind, we would have no reason for runway shows. Just saying. Because like, who's gonna be there to appreciate the design of these clothes? Or would it by how the clothes feel? In that case, would people be groping models as they walk to get a "feel" for the material? Or even more alarming, who's making the clothes? How are blind people not losing their fingers to heavy machinery and scary sewing needles? HOW DO BLIND PEOPLE MAKE HEAVY MACHINERY?? O LAWD!!
So a couple of days ago I went to CVS to get some coffee. I went up to the register and this girl who looks about the same age as me, asked me if I had a CVS card and I replied, "No I don't have one." She then scans the coffee and I look at the monitor to see how much it would be and I saw that she took off a dollar. As I gave her the money she looked at me weird, almost as if she was flirting.
I think better looking people get treated better their whole lives, so after a while they just become happier nicer people. This is definitely NOT always true, but something I have indeed experienced. Also, if someone is really ugly, they tend to be bitter (understandably so) and they probably hate the world for their "bad luck."
yeah i think that's true, if an average dude says or does something to try and flirt with a girl it could be considered creepy, but if a better looking dude did the same thing it wouldn't be creepy but now it's cute
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