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WOLF x GARDEN not anymore as I’m happily married now with kids, but when I was younger I could never understand, how I knew fellers liked me as they would tell my friends, but never ever asked me out... I never had the confidence to talk or approach anyone. But with age comes confidence and I say to any woman girl... that if they like someone and feel that the feller likes them, smile and see what happens 💛
I’m one of those whose puberty ‘hit them like a train’ and I used to be bullied for my looks during school years and it still makes me struggle with my appearance even though I try to fake it until I make it. When it comes to partners I want, like anyone else, someone I feel attracted to but not only physically but emotionally and mentally. sometimes you might see a pretty face but they will have a shitty attitude (and this applies to both genders- either girls who are mean girls or guys who are fuckboys) and that immediately turns me off, so I can’t really go into something without first taking a step back and trying to crack down what kind of character they have by how they talk or what their morals are and if we don’t have much in common or they’re a douche, I will just close myself to them.
I have to say though, I’m not really one to approach first though because either I don’t have much self esteem from my past bad experiences or fear of rejection or being seen as ‘easy’ and I don’t blame guys who’ve had problems with these aspects as well, we’re all humans.
but yeah, it’s a struggle and also since I’m one who’s very independent and wants to have my own business when I get a bit older, I believe some people get put off or intimidated by it; then again, I don’t want a partner who feels like they have to feel more powerful than me and gets put off by that, I just want an equal who can compensate where I’m lacking and vice versa. I want to be able to have intelligent conversations at late hours in the nights or just do simple dates like go have a coffee and make jokes or talk about what kind of plans we have for the future. before being my partner I want them to be my best friend and the hookup culture just doesn’t work out for me like it does to others, like you want to hook up go ahead but that’s not for me, I need to have a connection.
Beautiful women dont want to be told over and over about how beautiful they are. If you were a wealthy man seeking a genuine relationship, would you be happy with a girl who kept saying "youre so rich" over and over. Exactly. So dont do it.
I struggle to find a boyfriend
I get so many stares from men and women get mad at me cause their boyfriends are staring at me
I am not a home wrecker or a bitch
Tell me is there something wrong with me can u tell me
I have money, am good looking, I avoid all relationships. Pick any arbitrary girl and remember she sits on the pot every day too. No intimidation. Feel resistance? Bail out, not every girl is in the right mood or interested.
Most important, realize that commitment, being faithful, monogamous are NOT at all time highs. If you accept that, "hey these are the facts on the ground" then you understand to avoid relationships. Make it clear to her "I'm not interested in a long term relationship. If you're not okay with that, we should part company."
VARIETY. We gotta have variety. Getting stuck with the same person sucks, admit it. No variety in the bedroom. You live together, start getting on each other's nerves after 1? 2? 3? months, kills the romance, BAM relationship over.
We have to set our own expectations, it's not like being devoted, committed, dedicated are at all time highs. That hasn't been around for a long long time.
Have fun, have variety, avoid relationships like your life depends on it.
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I approached plenty of good-looking girls.
I was rejected time after time, because they wanted ‘exciting’ low-life scumbags and/or psychos.
I was not playing out of my league, in terms of physical appeal and income.
After a while, I stopped trying.
The bad boys can have them.
Thelondonbadger no I'm not like some psycho that your describing. Some females like to simply be feminine and not act like men or want to be in control when in comes to starting relationships. Some people are just more introverted
+m om Traditional are we? So do you have your chasity and you are ofc a virgin right?
*L O L*
Do you at least cook, clean, know when to shuttup, want kids, are emotionally supportive and dont emasculate your man?
*L O L*
Well you are about as traditional as a drag queen .
From What i come from thats its called an excuse
Thats like me saying i Want the Girl to ask me out because i am scared to make a move so... I just Say i am traditional....
Well miss your proply one of the 98,8% WHO is.....traditional lol
if I can boil life down to 2 things it's basically expectations and supply/demand. If you have high expectations, you yourself is in high demand, and what you are looking for is in low supply you basically will be left out in the cold. The best scenario is you have moderate expectations, you are in moderate demand, and what you are looking for is in high supply.
They don’t have trouble they’re just picky plain and simple as that.Why waste your time with a beautiful girl 7-8 out of 10 she’s going to reject you.Everyone wants to pursue her and even if you do get her in a relationship with you’re still pretty much competiting with the other guys that want her so not worth the time or stress at all believe me
What's the point in agonising over this? There always will be guys who are just out for sex and as commented here, they pitch far above their weight. For their part, good looking women might be dumb as ditch water, but feel entitled anyway.
This is never ever going to change. It's human nature and we may as well just accept it. Yes, good looks can and often are a curse! Try being ugly!
They don’t have any trouble. It’s that they are uber picky. They can have any man they want and they do so they go for the best. Have a really hot woman friend that went to Europe a few times a year to find a rich husband and she found him in the UK.
What's wrong with wanting to be cared for so you don't have to work? Men make 250k over women in.a lifetime, eliminating children factoring in. It's GREAT. Nothing worse than those cheap males splitting the cost of arugala...
I excercise I'm fit and relatively attractive and some have thought I was a model. I have a promising career and education and am a nice person. Despite this the only type of men I attract are sociopaths narcissists perverts and assholes. I never ever attract normal decent nice men. If there are they become friendly but that's it. There's no hint or anything where they want to take it further. However I get strangers or people online only telling me I'm beautiful . Not knowing I got into an abusive relationship and have crippling self esteem from the past. Looks aren't everything . I've seen the ugliest women get great men while some pretty girls can struggle. One of my other friend looks like a fashion catwalk model and is a virgin and literally never ever approached
Guys stares from far away or tell me I look like beyonce and rihanna (weird I still dont get it) and then they’re leaving with a big smile on their face and thats it... lol Why ppl are saying girls are complicated ? Naah... guys are complicated
If you are attractive, or say well endowed, guys are probably admiring you and deciding if you are "in their league" or not.
Guys have this thing called an ego. They do not want to put it at risk unnecessarily. When I was young I was the same way. There is no longer walk than the one across a room or dance floor to ask a girl to dance, be turned down, and having to walk back. It is humiliating. Then I learned a big secret. CONFIDENCE. I realized that if I stood there and never asked I would never get a yes. So I started asking and sucked the rejections up. Then the laws of averages kicked in, and I started getting more yes's, because I did not care how many no's I got. Later the confidence I had was visible to the women and they started saying yes more. This continued way past dating and into the pursuit of romantic partners too. More than once I've walked up to complete strangers, talked to them for less than two minutes and then off we went to planning a date for another meetup time.
My point is young guys have fragile egos and they do not want to risk them, so they judge whether they might get a yes or no before they approach a girl or woman. That's why if you like them you should give them some signs of interest back such as a smile in their direction so they can Shoot Their Shot At You.
Since they are looking they probably find you attractive. They probably judge that you are "too" attractive and therefore are too great a risk to approach.
I don't know what other people are telling you, but no one knows what is going on in a man's head better another man who has lived it.
The stares might be because you are busty, or have a nice figure. THAT can be intimidating too. Guys might stand around a drool like a bunch of horny dogs but no one will do anything because of the risk and the humiliation factor.
Then there are the guys who have a lot of confidence and those are the one you might consider players. Given the fact that they can easily approach you with limited anxiety it's likely they're approaching and hollering at other girls as well.
Today there is nothing wrong with a girl approaching a boy. A simple smile towards his direction or position yourself in a way where he can shoot his shot (ex. if you're with your friends take a moment away for them where it would be easier for him to approach you). If you are interested in someone you have seen looking at you, try approaching them and saying something like, "I noticed you were looking in my direction, kind of like you wanted to say something...am I wrong?" That gives them a chance to chat you up, and you have not said anything that would be interpreted as the First Move, like you are coming on to him. You are just asking him if he had something to say. He might then say..."Yeah, I wanted to ask you to dance...."
Starting communication is the hardest thing. Once the lines are open its pretty easy. Over the years guys have always had to be the aggressor and it is hard for young guys to approach the opposite sex with any confidence. It only comes with years of practice after you have gotten confidence in your self. Women can help by telling a guy his good points. We have no idea how we come off to the opposite sex. Our mothers can't help because they are biased. Our sisters, well, we take their input with a grain of salt.
So if you have male friends, talk about the subject of what makes you or them attractive. Do know that men are very big on visual sexual stimulation, so if you are big busted, that alone is enough to get boys interested. Just do not let yourself be used. Confidence is a two way street. Made a video all about this as well lol
I think this can be summed up quite easily. A LOT of men see us as a conquest, not a person. They spend weeks, months, or even years trying to figure out how to "bag" us. Once they achieve it, once you agree to go out with them, sleep with them, or return their affections, they lose interest rapidly. Cause all you ever were to them was that day's hottest new gadget. By the next day, they'll have you out on the sidwalk awaiting bulky item pickup while they go after the next new thing. When you have SO much more to share with people beyond your looks and sexuality, it becomes depressing being treated this way and categorized as one dimensional.
Yet again, I just posted this comment on another comment thread in this video. Indeed... and here we have another perfect example of the meme- "if you want to piss a woman off, view her as a sex object... and if you want to piss a woman off DONT view her as a sex object" I have seen this both ways so many times.
From my own experience, I was big and didn’t dress nicely. I think a man knows how to get a woman who has low self-esteem (they always look how you look physically) I don’t say that attractive women do not have low self esteem. (some of them do have) but most of the time, it’s how a man pick easy targets. That’s why they don’t approach attractive or “put together women”
- some men are shy and like you but are intimidated by your personality or by something they lack that the girl has
- some men are insecure and afraid of rejection
- some men that want control of a girl but then discover that they can't control the girl will back off
if the manipulation doesn't work
- some men like you but are afraid to get hurt
- some men only want a hook-up but don't want to be a boyfriend
- some men only want to use woman
- some men are intimidated if the woman is more intelligent than them or makes more money than them
after 7 failed relationships, not all my exes were bad but some of them were
one crush who almost became my 8th lover but isn't and who treated me bad
one potential man from facebook who claimed to want me but became clingy and gave me a thread disguised in so called friendly advice
I finally found my 8th lover at work who is a gentleman and who want to take things slow
and really wants to know me as a person and wants to go deeper, he not only finds me sexy on the outside
he also likes me intelligence, actually asks questions to know me and remembers things and he actually appreciates me
I'm his first girlfriend , I even met his mother already and his mother actually likes me
+eclipseNF Shes probs cheated on him or chucked him already. She doesnt want good men, she wants assholes that put her in her place. That is what makes her feel secure. She wants a man that she cant run over. She will test and fuck with him until he gets fed up of the abuse and leaves.
This is completely incorrect. Men never ever approach sexy woman because they are intimidated. But they then dm her and arent afraid to talk over the net. Sexy woman can never get a boyfriend because men are too scared to talk to them
Eugenio Magay Hmmm. I can’t decide between schooling you so you can learn the concept of intelligence or let you reap the consequences of being a plague on society. Nah, I’d have to dumb it down too much.
That's my issue. Every guy that approach me, are always like "You are so pretty, Omg...." All they say is pretty, pretty pretty... and it might be strange but I don't like it, it feels like they don't see beyond it, and I'm turned off right away. I know that they are not blind, they see. But I feel like I need someone that says " Ok, you are very beautiful. But I want to go deeper inside you and check what more you have to offer." I really wish for someone that will appreciate my mind and won't want me for decoration and show off!
So not weird though. It's hard to talk about because if you say out loud and admit that you know that you're attractive and talk about the problems around it, people get pissed and don't want to hear it. But it's all true. I feel like I have to be a lot more closed off and cold and defensive than I ever want to be with most people (i'm naturally very bubbly and interested in others) because I can immediately detect that they're drooling (or if another straight female, glaring at you) and simply want something from me/want to use me. And the thing is, they themselves, the people, often aren't even consciously aware of their own intentions and vibes yet at the time. But if I wait long enough for them to get it well then they think you were egging them on. There's no winning, you just have to back out as soon as possible. You end up lonely and disappointed very quickly.
It's completely exhausting to be so valued that you're actually devalued overall.
Indeed... and here we have another perfect example of the meme- "if you want to piss a woman off, view her as a sex object... and if you want to piss a woman off DONT view her as a sex object" I have seen this both ways so many times.
even the bottom of the barrel thinks they deserve someone better than them. also, i've noticed there are more sociopathic type of men who don't consider who they are in comparison to their target. they are always trying to go up, while they don't' have as good qualities. that's offensive and obnoxious and it happens all the time. they know they have nothing in common with the other but they try anyways. men seem to just be out for sex. all they consider is the other's physical looks and anything else they can get such as a relationship is a bonus. i'm honestly amazed at the numbers of absolute lowlives that are out there. they are codependent and have almost zero values. they see relationships and people as objects they can use. this is why they pick people who have different interests, intelligence, tastes, looks etc. anything they can parasite off of.
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